Going All In

Going All In

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My Ex’s Response
to the Substack I wrote about leaving our relationship
Aug 23 • Sara Fay
Good Love, Great Expectations, and the Fear of Ending Up Alone
The High-Stakes Gamble of Modern Love
Mar 15 • Sara Fay
Friendship Part 2: Creating Richness of Connection
7 Tactical Suggestions
Oct 4 • Sara Fay
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Good Love, Great Expectations, and the Fear of Ending Up Alone
Mar 15 • Sara Fay
The Soul Code
Aug 30 • Sara Fay
I’m 39, I Live with My Mom and I Love It.
May 10 • Sara Fay
Partner Lists
Feb 22 • Sara Fay
A Question About Friendship
Sep 21 • Sara Fay
Devotion Magnetizes Devotion
Mar 1 • Sara Fay

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A Question About Friendship
Navigating Emotions When Friendships Change
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The Soul Code
and facing my worst fear
Aug 30 • Sara Fay
Notes on Desire
I took an unintentionally long break from Substack because I turned 40 in May and it rocked me emotionally - in some ways that I saw coming, and some…
Jul 12 • Sara Fay
Notes from the Best Day of the Year
Esther Perel's Conference on the State of Relationships
May 17 • Sara Fay
I’m 39, I Live with My Mom and I Love It.
A story of cohabitation
May 10 • Sara Fay
There Are Almost as Many Americans Living Alone as People in Canada
What does that look like for co-habitation and community?
May 3 • Sara Fay
Ojas, Eroticism and Ibiza
Cultivating vitality and aliveness
Apr 26 • Sara Fay
4 Essential Pieces of Relationship Content
Consider this your syllabus for dating and relationship 101
Apr 19 • Sara Fay
Going All In
Going All In
Going All In is an exploration of love, relationships and what comprises a life well lived.
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